Women love to speak!!!

It has been a long time since i blogged. And even now i don't know what to blog on. But wait, i think i have something in my mind...Why not about women??(the ones who are always teased by men for thinking aloud and for being indirect..) For Guys over there, i know you people go behind reason and logic, my entire post actually is based on those things...

I have heard this a hell lot of times, be it from my grandpa, my dad, my brothers or some other guys(who are lucky enough to get committed).
"Nandhu, You know what, i wonder how she keeps talking all through the day. "(by the way she refers to any women..my granny, mom, nieces....) I never knew how to respond to those lines, because am no different. I spend a whole day with my friends, return home, then again i start to message or call them. The truth is, these things sound weird only for guys.


WOMEN LOVE TO TALK !!
If you think there are women who are silent and don't speak much, then probably you aren't that close to her. Every women loves to talk!! Men see the telephone as a communication tool for relaying facts and information, but a women sees it as a means of bonding. Usually mothers talk to, and look at, baby girls more often than baby boys. Since a girl's brain is better organised to send and receive speech, parents talk to her more. Consequently, mothers who try to talk their sons are usually disappointed to receive only short grunts. (am not actually complaining anyone...it's the general truth)

SO WHY WOMEN NEED TO TALK?
Men's brain are compartmentalised and at the end of the day can file the problems away. But the only way women get rid of their problems is by talking about them. So her objective is to discharge the problems, not to find conclusions.
Generally, women sees her thinking ALOUD as friendly, sharing. But men perceive them as complaints and thinks that they need to fix those problems.(100% wrong!!)

GUYS-THE SILENT TALKERS
If men complain women about their LOUD thoughts, women start complaining that the guys turn silent when they have to speak.(i have actually did it a few times when it comes to
my bro ;) )

And now i know the reason, in case of problems, guys TALK TO THEMSELVES-SILENTLY.
When he says, "can you leave it to me?", he means it. But the worst part is, only another man can understand what a silent talking is.

May be that's why guys prefer to have a silent drink and women love to chit-chat even while watching a movie...

Want more proof?? Just go to a greeting card section, pick out one you like. Chances are you pick a card with more words and less space for you to write, if you are a guy and vice-versa.

And now am wondering, if i have been speaking a lot..(never mind, WOMEN LOVE TO TALK !!)
So its simple, guys don't complain if a girl speaks a lot and you feel boring..just tell her in polite way.

And for girls over there, just because you love to talk, you can't keep talking all the time..when guys tell / shows dis-interest, try to stop or you might end up in the crying game(which most of the men can't handle).

So what am I doing here, a counselling section thru' my blog ?? Err..this is what a girl actually does, type and then think.

Anyways, do comment.

catch you soon,
nandhu :)

Right now: am reading "3 mistakes of my life" , learning viking language scripts, searching a good viking pattern for my new finger ring

உணராமலே...

என்ன தான் இருந்தாலும் தமிழ் தமிழ் தான்...வழக்கம் போல அன்னிக்கும் class ரொம்ப போர் அடிச்சுது ...அதான் சும்மா கவிதை எழுத (கிறுக்க) ஆரம்மிசிடேன் ... :)

உணராமலே ....

* கண்களால் என்னை கைது செய்யவில்லை
உன் இதயத்தில் என்னை சிறை பிடிக்கவுமில்லை
காரணம் மிக எளிது -
பூக்களைக்கூட கிள்ளாத தேவதையடி நீ...

* வெளிச்சமற்ற நிசியில் உன் நிழல் உன்னைப்பிரிவதுண்டு
அனால் உணர்ந்து பார், அப்போதும் என் சுவாசம் உன் அருகில் தான்...

* உன் மனதிற்கு தெரியாமலே, என்னைக் கடதியவள் நீயடி !!
என் நிலை தெரிந்தால் வருதப்ப்படுவாயா? - அல்ல
கைகளால் உன் உதட்டை மூடி கள்ளத்தனமாய் சிரிப்பாயா??

*குறுநகையோ, 'உச்' கொட்டும் வருத்தமோ,
காலம் கடத்தாதே தேவதைப்பெண்ணே !
இதற்கான காரணமும் மிக எளிது -
இரண்டுமே உன் முகத்தில் அழகுதான் ,
என்னை மீண்டும் கடத்த, உணராமலே
நீ செய்யும் யுக்திகள் தான்...


Right now: Iam bitterly confused...iam worried about my PG...already some of ma frens have started their preparations...But me??? :'( Iam google-ing on-and-off about PG courses...
But i end up orkutting, posting blogs... Will i ever get serious?????


Anyways, its time to bid a bye...(for, my cuz is here and it's really tough trying to keep little kids away from computers)

catch u soon,
nandhu :)

While You Were Sleeping....

Hiya,
It has been a long time since i posted my last post (to damn with my MOdulator-DEModulator...)
Just thinking back what i did the last week, i cannot think of something special. As usual, slept a lot in my classes, read a novel (ppl called it horror fiction-ya i agree it was fiction, but certainly not a horror acc to me) , wrote a lyric or two in boring class hours, scribbled quotes on my desk (i dunno y, but at tyms am a bad gal ;) ) ....
Fine so what now?? For a change, am trying a movie-review (a 1995 movie, a little bit old..but one of the best i have seen ...)

Movie: While you were sleeping
Cast: Sandra Bullock(as Lucy),
Bill Pullman(as Jack), Peter Gallaghar(as Peter)
Genre: Romantic comedy

Lucy works as a toll booth clerk on railway and loves to travel. She has no family, and is usually stuck doing holiday shifts. She has noted one man who uses the station all the time (Peter), and she likes him and thinks she is going to marry him one day. On the day of Christmas, he was hurt by a group of guys. She rescues him when he is thrown onto the train tracks just before a train comes into the station. Peter goes into coma and Lucy wasn't allowed to see him. She lies that, she is his fiancee. And this starts the rest. The whole family of Peter believes it and when she tries to tell them the truth, she learns taht Peter's grandmother has a heart problem and hesitates. Soon she is treated as a member of this nice family as a member.

There comes Peter's brother, Jack who has doubts about Lucy and he constantly keeps questioning her about Peter-Lucy's love. She gives a plausible explanation everytime. The only one who knows the truth is the family friend Sam and he too feels that the news has to be broken carefully (he loves the family and doesn't want them hurt). Oddly enough his one effort at meddling almost screws up the situation. In the mean time, Jack and Lucy find that they are also growing more attracted to each other. At last, Peter who was in coma all this time wakes up, and though he says that he doesn't remember Lucy, he starts liking her.

The day before the wedding, Jack visits her to give her a present - a snowglobe of Floren, Italy, the place that she has always wanted to go to. As he leaves, Lucy asks him if he could give her any reason why she shouldn't marry Peter. Jack hesitates before saying that he cannot give a reason, and sadly leaves.

On the day of the wedding, Lucy starts to feel more and more guilty over her lie and her feelings for Jack, when it's actually Peter she's marrying. Lucy suddenly starts to object. Jack is surprised and objects too. She tells the family who she is and what went wrong in the hospital. She tells the parents she's fallen in love with their son, but points out that it's not Peter, but Jack. Also showing up to object to the union is Ashley, Peter's real fiancee, whom the family learns also happens to be married. As the family argues, Lucy leaves, unsure of her future.

The final scene opens with Lucy on her last day of work at the station. As she accepts tokens from passengers, an engagement ring falls through the toll window. When Lucy looks up, she sees Jack and his family standing there. Jack walks into the collection booth and proposes to Lucy.

The film ends with the two happily married in wedding attire, on the back of a train departing from the station, complete with a sign reading "Just Married". Lucy narrates that she planned to marry Peter but married Jack instead and that he gave her the World by fulfilling her dream of getting her passport stamped and taking her to Florence for their honeymoon. She also explains that Peter once asked when she fell in love with Jack, and Lucy replied, "It was while you were sleeping."

The performances are flawless, and the movie as a whole is really charming. (I personally feel that the movie is worth for more than a single watch...Thanx for the Star movies, thanx for my free evening, and above all thanx for my sis, for being not being at home and for letting me to watch the movie peacefully :) )

do comment, (but beyond try to watch the movie...i think you won't regret if you love to laugh)
nandhu :)

Belated friendship day wishes

Hiya!!

As iam typing this post, i remember my sis fighting with me for celebrating friendship day. Her logic is, "nandhu, friendship is not restricted to one day, you need not call or sms your friends to tell them how special they are to you on that day alone...this sounds pointless for me.." I also do have a few other friends who agree with my sis..But i feel it in a different way...
Though am a proud Indian, and i sing the national anthem (on all occasions whenever it is played), i feel my blood exactly flowing through the vessels when i sing it on the independence day, with a flag pinned to my dress..
Just the same Nanogic (clipped version of Nandhu's + Logic), we all need at least one day to tell our people, how much they are into our life and how much we are happy about it..(NOTE: I used 'at least' and certainly not 'utmost' )
May be that's why we are into such days of celebrations....
Right from my schooling, i have had just a very few close friends...But its not the number that counts right? They have always been the best and thank nature for that !!

Here is the maximum thing that i can do (sitting in front of my PC) for my friends...
a few lines may be in english this time...

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PROMISE ME


Oh my dear,
i hate if it rains,
when we stride -for i can't
let those drops to fell between us...



oh my love,
i just can't bear
when it snows
'coz my eyes can't miss you
for a second in those snowy flakes






oh my life,
the spring is none the less
for iam angry about that too,
it's not for the lovely days,
but for the sounds of the birds
which snoop into my dream
where it was only you and me
oh my lovely life!!




Oh my heart,
summer is certainly not great,
for it never begs your pardon
even when it makes you sweat
So, just a not and
i Will stow it away



Oh my friend,
i know you look at me so weird,
but dare not ,
for i like nothing else when
you are near

Oh my staunch,
just PROMISE ME only once,
and let's conquer the magic land
where
joy rains, love snows,
friendship speaks and
i see you smiling all the time...

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(if you feel these lines sound like a kid's, sorry i can't help it...it is meant to be this way)

anyways, "belated happy friendship day" to ma frens who have read the whole thing patiently :)

Right now:
iam still doing the handwriting analysis
iam also practicing tattooing :)
my 1st tattoo--->



do comment(if u feel like)
catch u soon,
nandhu :)

காதலர்கள் தினமாம்...

hiya !
its me again(C'mmon u certainly can't expect someone else in my blog, right??) . Right now a helluva things are bugging me. The announcements for many symposiums keep coming into my track, but i don't have even one single paper to present; friends are demanding me to come for "nadodigal" movie (i hate it, no big reasons- i just hate those village-looking actors); my guitar master is gonna push me out of the class today by 7 pm, if am not gonna play those minor chords; one best friend of mine who promised to be with me today, couldn't make things work(it wasn't her fault, but she ruined my ideas of chit-chats and interesting GOSSIPS ;) ) . . . .

So here is nandhu, blogging...it has been a long time since i posted a string(read as lengthy string) of Tamil lines... those who can read the language of Tamil, just give it a try.. i hope you wont regret :)

காதலர்கள் தினமாம்

# அந்த பள்ளி சீருடையை மாற்றி
களைப்பு தெரியாமல் முகம் கழுவி,
அவளிடம் முத்தங்கள் பெற்று -
விசுக் - விசுக் கென வேகமாய் நடைகள் போட்டான்
கடற்கரை நோக்கி - அன்று காதலர்கள் தினமாம் !!

# கண்ணதாசனின் பெயர் தெரியாது,
தாஜ்மகாலின் நிறம் தெரியாது,
சிகப்பு ரோஜாகளின் சிறப்பு தெரியாது,
எனினும் அது அவனுள் வானவில் தோன்றும் நாள்
- அன்று காதலர்கள் தினமாம் !!

# "கீழ் விழும் பொருட்கள் அனைத்தும் புவியீர்ப்பால்"
- என்ற அன்றைய அறிவியல் பாடம்
அவனது சிறு மூளைக்குள் உதிக்க,
புவியீர்ப்பு ்சக்திக்கு நன்றிகள் சொல்லியப்படி
நடைகள் போட்டான் ;
காதலில் விழுவதற்கு அதுவே காரணமென்றெண்ணி.

# கடற்கரை மணல் கால்களில் பட
சிந்தனைகளை ஓரம் கட்டி விட்டு,
விறுவிறுப்பாக முகத்தைதத் துடைத்தப்படி,
காதல் ஜோடிகளின் அருகில் சென்று,
கூவத்தொடங்கினான்
"சுண்டல் சுண்டல்" என்று,
அன்று காதலர்கள் தினமாம் -
அந்த சுண்டல் விற்கும் சிறுவனின் வாழ்வில் கோலாகலமாம் ! !

and that's it for now, do post ur comments...
nandhu :)


right now:
iam learning graphology (handwriting analysis), if you people are interested give me some handwriting sample of yours, i will tell about your traits :)

i english know....

hiya !!

i just browsed for sometime and found some of the famous jpr dialogues...if you don't know who he is, then here is a short intro...he is the chairman of some of the famous colleges in Chennai..He is really famous for his English speaking skills, damn good that i always wanted to hear to him ( but luckily or un-luckily i am not in one of his colleges). So what makes his English special is that he directly converts all the Tamil words into equivalent English words, without changing the order..

Disclaimer: All the contents below are what he actually said, and not the blog author's imagination. I just don't have anything against him and this post is meant only for fun :)

# About his family :
* I have two daughters. Both of them are girls…(?)# At the ground :
All of you, stand in a straight circle.

* There is no wind in the balloon.

*The girl with the mirror please come her…{Meaning girl with specs).

# To a boy, angrily :

* I talk, he talk, why you middle middle talk ?

# Giving a punishment :

* You, rotate the ground four times…

* You, go and under-stand the tree…

* You three of you, stand together separately.

* Why are you late – say YES or NO …..(?)

# Sir at his best :
Sir had once gone for a movie with his wife. By chance, he happened to see one of his students at the theatre, though the boy did not see them. So the next day at school… ( to that boy ) – “Yesterday I saw you WITH MY WIFE at the Cinema Theatre”

# Inside the Class :
* Open the doors of the window. Let the atmosphere come in.

* Open the doors of the window. Let the Air Force come in.

* Cut an apple into two halves – take the bigger half.

* Shhh…Quiet, boys…the principal just passed away in the corridor

* You, meet me behind the class. (meaning AFTER the class .. )

* Both of u three, get out of the class.

* Close the doors of the windows please. I have winter in my nose today..

* Take Copper Wire of any metal especially of Silver…..

* Take 5 cm wire of any length….

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* Bus miss means mess miss… mess miss means hangry… (hungry that is)…
hangry means angry… then not study...

* all standing under the tree whos whos class whos whos go...

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*once jeppiar had come late to a college function, by the time the function had started, so he went to the dais, and said, sorry i am late, because on the way my car hit 2 muttons (Meaning goats).

*This is the way his english will be but let me tell u some of the dialogues heard during Sathyabama college day 2001 -
Jeppiaar strict, you for worry.
You get good mark, you for happy.
You get job, jeppiaar the happy.
You get marry, jeppiaar the enjoy

* St joseph freshyears day 2003 -
“No ragging this college. anybody rag we arrest the police”

* fathers give girls fresh..i give fathers girls fresh…( spoken on the opening day!!)

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his speech about kargil widows:
All brothers standin border..shooting dying..child asking mummy…
“mummy where is daddy”…daddy coming body…saying this he wiped his tears…

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this one is really famous : "BOY BOY TALK, GIRL GIRL TALK, BOY GIRL NO
TALK "

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that's it for now,

i guitar-class tym, so next blog i look you.
you dont comment, i dont cry but my heart worried.
you comment i happy; i happy, i write more blogs.

nandhu :)

Marina beach- the chennai's hot spot..

Mahatma Gandhi, Kannagi, Thiruvalluvar, M.G.R, Annadurai...you people know what, i met them together yesterday. But i missed the legendary actor Sivaji Ganesan. Wait wait, iam not bluffing, nor i was travelling in a time-machine. Probably, Chennai-ites would have guessed by now. I was in the Marina-beach(which is popularly misconcepted as world's second longest beach. But who gives a damn, my Chennai is Chennai and Marina is Marina :) )

The place as everybody knows is one with a lot of activities..Be it the kids who play on the beach sand, the guys playing cricket(remember Ch-28 movie), the vendors selling eatables, the lovers and the list goes on..

Here are a few clicks of this hot-spot....

beach is one of the best places for taking photos of your Shadows ...(by the way, this is my gang and find me out..)

Who can resist looking at the colourful,mouth-watering cotton candies??

(certainly i can't....but mom says "Nandhu, NO cotton candies at beach"...)

The police patrol (or life-guards, that's their real name) can be spotted in the evenings.. But you know what, with such a heavy clothing, they can't actually guard lives ...










CORN...one of the best things i like..nothing can come near the hot-ones on a cloudy evening...
(by the way, this lady is grilling one for me..
and as usual " it's yummy..." :) )










pay Rs 10/- get a paper cone filled with
puffed rice(pori), raw-mango, spices, and hot steamed ground-nuts... What more can you ask for ??
This is a typical sundal-stall on a tri-cycle..
(one of the hot-selling business in beach)








Bhel-pooris, pani-pooris, channa, pav-bhajees
so what is this stall, a mini chat-centre...
(for people who consider their health point of view, don't try this unless you certainly want to)











this is the balloon shooting arcade..
take a riffle, aim one balloon, place your finger on the trigger...shoot..."dishuum"...
"sorry mam, the riffle is not loaded"
:D









But to top the list there are a certain group of folks, like me, who love to do some art in the sand....( i made this, and a few started to copy me :) )


"விலகிச் செல்ல நீயும்,
உன்னை நினைத்து வாழ நானும்
இல்லாவிடில்,
காதலை உணராமலே இந்த அலைகள்
கல்லறை எய்தியிருக்கும் !!"்

(if you are lucky enough, you can also spot a few upcoming lyricist like me ... anyways, i made this lyric, sitting there...)


That's it for now and as usual "do comment"...

nandhu :)