Top reasons..

Hiya!!
Having my study holidays started around a week back, i haven't touched a single book for more than five minutes. You wanna what this 5 mins thing is?? pretending to be studious in front of people at home ;)
Anyways, it's time to blog..."oh! how i wish i were a guy.." i have both heard this and said it out myself..After getting some ideas from my friends, here is my blog...

TOP REASONS WHY YOU CAN BE A GUY

* U can comment on a gal in an audible frequency in her presence (just keep ur fingers crossed that she doesn't know any martial arts ;) )

* U can return home late-nights, and there will always be mom ready to serve you a dinner without stares/yells

* U can party with your friends throughout your life

* U can send all those SMS teasing about women (just check ur inbox..i bet am right!!)

* U can fall in love easily

* Phone conversations rarely exceed a minute..and mostly just "uh-huh-yep-ok..then bye" is enough

* If you are 30+ and still single, nobody notices

* U can watch a game in silence with ur buddy for hours, without even thinking(he must be mad @ me)

* U don't need a companion for whatever you do and wherever you go

* Christmas shopping can be accomplished for 25 relatives, on Dec 24th in 45 mins

* U don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt

and now

TOP REASONS WHY YOU CAN BE A GAL

* U can enjoy a pink-coloured lolly on the roads, without caring who is watching

* U can ogle without getting caught ;)

* U can say "I LOVE YOU" and kiss your close friend on her cheeks

* U can have your pick from a huge variety of costumes

* U can make a guy to get on his nerves with your way of shopping

* There will always be people to pamper you

* Sitting and watching people is all the entertainment you need

* Ur friend won't think weird when u ask if there is spinach in ur teeth

* U can cry without pretending as if there is some dust in ur eyes

* " Women and children FIRST " (remember the last scene in 'titanic' mve)

* U need not worry about ur career...there is always a marriage...

So, here is the verdict: " Everybody has his/her own best reasons...
and i hereby conclude saying that both guys and gals are equal in the eyes of justice..err..nature.." ha ha ..
i know i sound like some....

anyways, it has been a long time since i blogged and hence i didn't want any reason to pick up some topic in random..if u have something funny/interesting along these lines, post them as comments...

do comment,
nandhu :)

Rite now: hmm..am hunting for some books(story books obviously), hunting for some topic to write a lyric on (can u suggest me one??i will give a try..) ..so basically it's all hunting ;)

Come back...

Hiya,
So my semester practicals are almost over and just the communication skills lab is left out and here is nands blogging happily...but wait, am i really happy?? er..it's a difficult question for me to answer now...
With my marks dropping down in one particular subject (which i actually love..because of the staff handling it...) and he asking me with all kind considerations (which is quite unique with my department male-staffs..), i was unable to speak a word in front of him...(for i knew i have really made him feel down..). Coming back home, something even more disturbing happened...mom and dad felt bad about my marks...(though i know it's hard to convince parents in case of marks,
i felt really down since i held the whole responsibility...)
As i have this habit of writing lyrics, when i feel bad, i started to write one... I wanted some good time to come soon...thought about my guy, who i really missed out...and here is the one which i wrote...

COME BACK


Come back, hold my hands,
lemme feel your presence again
come back stay next to me,
let our whispers scent the air
come back come back
for life is not the same without you,
come back come back now
my heart aches to be with you...

oh my guy, just don't stare
as you dunno me..
for it stabs a huNdred times
more than the shiny knives,
now my hand seems tO be empty
without yours in it,
my little heart seems tO be too heavy
filled with your thoughts,
So, come back come back Now
my journey is hard without you
come back comE back
I wanna be with you...

That day I thought it was yet another fight,
all I knew then was, It's gonna be all right
But till now the things are not the way I thought,
my heart tells me now, it was all my fault..
My poor heart can never hide my love,
my stupid arms want to hold you close,
not thinking about the world that's around us,
My mind is getting mad about you...

So come back to me - come back
You are my World - come back
come back to me - come back
my LOVE is true - come back
C-O-M-E B-A-C-K.....

For people who want to know about him, all I can tell is his name…I have made a few letters in the 2nd para ‘bold’ …put those letters together to find his name…

For witty ones, who have understood the pun, KUDOS !!!

For the rest, sorry guys, better luck next time… ;)

do comment,
catch you soon,
nandhu :)

rite now: searching for a new guitar class, planning to study the subject which i did miserably bad, waiting to meet one of my best friend who is coming home tom :)

Are you possessive or being possessed?

Hiya!!
I didn't have any idea to blog till noon. But a friend of mine suggested to write about "possessiveness". Hey, i liked the topic. So here Iam.
So what does a dictionary define it as? "not wanting to share Sb/sth". Everybody is possessive about something or the other-even a 2 year old with its dad/mom, a 5 year old with it's toys..then as the time passes ..possessiveness on friends, on lover... so extends the list..
There are just 2 scenes:

-1-
Boy: you seem 2 spend more time with others than with me..
Girl: nope....
Boy: no !! u do...don't do that again...
Girl:Why are you acting weird? STOP trying to be possessive... It bothers me....

-2-
Girl: c'mon how can you act as if you don't care for me?
Boy: What makes you feel that way?
Girl: The other day you teased me along with others..
Boy: It doesn't mean anything..
Girl: It does..you no more care for me...

In both these cases, the underlying current is possessiveness. When someone becomes close to us, we tend to feel as if we care more for them, than themselves.That's what land us in being possessive. Actually speaking there is nothing wrong about possessiveness as long as it doesn't bother the person on whom you are possessive. But once if the person feels it intriguing, it's time to stop acting so.

A senti-friend of mine said, "Why don't people understand that being possessive means, there is love underneath?"

Another friend of mine said, "people confuse care with possessiveness. There is a subtle difference between them, since possessiveness is not a fun anymore if the person feels uncomfortable."

Everybody has different opinions..and this is mine: "It's good to be possessive, after all it shows love. In fact i love to have people who are possessive & don't lemme down in-front of someone else (with whom iam not that very close). But everybody needs some space to breathe..so, letting people to breathe freely is also a sign of love. "

So, be possessive when someone feels down, it cheers them; But allow them to be themselves, it shows them how much you love them for being themselves.

I just forgot what my other friend said, "You idiot, you have microprocessors exam, and you are blogging about who-gives-a-damn-possessiveness.."

oh God!!i forgot that...my models are going on and it's time to read...

Do comment,
catch u soon,
nandhu :)

Rite now: A lil bit busy wid study books, Thinking "Have i really hurt someone by being possessive?" ;)